"God drew a circle in the sand and said this is where you are suppose to be."
Sometime long ago, "God drew a circle in the sand and said this is where you are suppose to be." Visiting this site, and reading this post, this is meant for you.
Welcome to the Beginning of Your New Journey.
No matter where you are in life, this is the moment that will change your future for the better. Be proud of yourself for taking the steps to do this. It is never easy to look back at your life and realize that you are not happy, and the things you are doing or involving yourself in, are bringing you to a place you do not want to be. It takes guts to reflect on your lifestyle and truthfully admit, you are not living right and that there needs to be a change. I can't even express how many times I have came to the moment where I told myself, "Today will be the day I do something different," and then sit down on the couch and say, "It can wait until tomorrow." Tomorrow turned into weeks, then months. I finally had to yell at myself and say, "NO," it can't wait. What was I waiting on. Nothing was going to happen to me until I got my ass off my sinking spot on the couch and make a permanent mark in the world. I had to truly discipline myself in making sure that every time I got up in the morning, I was doing something productive. Making sure I was catering to my self, and that I was focusing my energy and mind on the right things. And also having the right people and trusted relationships around me, that were going to elevate me into the person I so badly wanted to be.
Sometimes it is hard to do all of that alone..
..and I know that first hand myself. But after years of blaming everyone else for my loneliness, I realized there was no one to blame. That I was never alone. I had myself, and if I felt alone in my own company, I will always feel a void in my life and feel dependent on everyone else to change my situation. (I know I'm just rambling and may get away from the topic that I began with, but this is just me, you can accept it or not, but I love it.)
But here is my first task for you.
Do something you never wanted to do without the company of others. Go out to dinner with just yourself, go see a new movie, by yourself. Take a sip and paint or cooking class alone. Take a long walk or go to a festival, alone. Whatever it is, do it ALONE. Get the time to know yourself. See where your thoughts are when there is no one else around. Treat your time with you, as if you are getting the time to get to know a new person. Because no matter what, you will always be your first, truest, most loyal, and loving friend, and you should tend to that friendship every chance you get.
Now Here is Where We Help Each Other
This community will be build to ensure that you become the best woman that you can offer, to YOURSELF first, and then to the rest of the world. We are going to talk about topics from all ranges, and get down to the nitty-gritty that many shy away from discussing. Here is where we will dissect and break our lives down, only to build them back up like Egyptian Pyramids, to be admired for years to come. We are going to learn how to love ourselves, the good and the bad. This is not a journey you are taking on your own. There is a world filled with women who have the same thoughts, are in the same positions, and going through the same things as you are. Never think you are alone. This is your support group, this is the place that will hold you down, and give you whatever encouraging words you need to hear to know that you are moving in the right direction and that you are the shit! This site is not going to be like all those other self-help sites, this site will be your sisterh(elp)ood. We are all going to get through this crazy world together, Crown by Crown.